We met another lady who has boy/girl twins and she assured me things even off at around 2-1/2 yrs old. She said her kids wouldn’t even look at each other or have anything to do with one another until that age and now they are inseparable, playing all the time together. That’s nice to hear, because I was starting to feel like maybe my life’s calling was to be a referee, not a parent(though there are days when I stink at both).
We definitely can’t share yet. We are always grabbing what the other has. And sometimes I wish we could all just get along. Then there are times like today at the lunch table when I’m certain they speak their own dialect. Emma started babbling like she’s saying something amazing and Josiah is listening gibber word for gibber word and laughing hysterically each time she says this particular phrase. Then she’d start all over again and again. It was so interesting.